Body Language in Flirting

Male and female courtship signals have been studied, and the basic
conclusions are that these signals are completely unconscious. The more you
consciously understand the signals, the better and more successful you will be
when courting the object of your desire, whether it is the man or woman of your
dreams.
To master the art of successful flirting, you have to feel good about
yourself first. Be confident. Be yourself, or else you will look deceitful or
desperate. Flirting can be utilized in just about anything, not just in attracting the
opposite sex, but also in attaining just about anything you want in your life. This
can be described as good flirting. Good flirting should be done with a precise
understanding of what you really want, coupled with positive sensations.
I have interviewed a number of successful men and women in the field of
network marketing and advertising in their 30s and 40s. Here are their tips on
how you can put good flirting to your advantage:
1. Don’t worry about whether you are making a good impression or not.
Instead, analyze how you can make the other person feel good. By
doing this, you will get the feedback you are expecting. Soon you will
make the connection.
2. Flirting can help you make friends or impress a client if you make
yourself approachable. Put a smile on your face, as it gives you an
aura of being friendly.
3. Remember that you cannot attract people just by sitting or standing like
a statue. There will be instances when you will encounter a person
who gets a little bit too close for comfort feel, or someone who makes
you feel you are already invading privacy. No matter what you do, you
would get a so-called “vacuum” reaction. Tough one, huh? You can
avoid this by using gentle moves and by calibrating the person’s
reactions to you. Be aware of these signals: mouths get larger, the lips
swell, eyes widen, pupils dilate, skin flushes and changes color,
muscles around the mouth move, among others.
4. Be persistent. Flirting works best when you are patient. By being such,
you will have room for improvement if at first you aren’t getting the
results you want. If you fail the first time, do it again the second time,
third time, just keep trying. Try different approaches until you realize
what will really work best for you. If you were rejected, don’t give up.
This goes with the sayings, “To err is human” and “Nobody’s perfect.”
5. This is probably for me the most interesting and somehow funniest tip I
got: “Practice in the mirror, only then can you make it perfect!” This is
especially true in meeting friends and prospects, because flirting may
involve unwanted actions and attention which can put you in the bad
light. You may be spontaneous in your actions, but you can’t guard
yourself if you are already overdoing it, and I supposed you don’t want
to be in that situation. Try practicing with your close friends and ask for
feedback.
6. Make the first move! Opportunities knock only once, so if you want
something or even someone, go for it, now! Let go of your inhibitions.
But remember to apply positive or good flirting. Who knows if the
person you meet at that moment is your gateway towards the
fulfillment of your dreams.